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The Dance of Intimacy

Harriet Lerner

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The Dance of Intimacy

by Harriet Lerner
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The Dance of Intimacy
The Dance of Intimacy

Navigating the complex journey of intimate bonds.

If you're feeling a bit lost in your personal relationships, "The Dance of Intimacy" could be like a compass. Harriet Lerner has a way of guiding readers through the intricate steps necessary to strengthen genuine connections or heal the troubled ones. The book's real-life examples and actionable advice might prove indispensable whether you're aiming to deepen a healthy relationship or salvage one that's under strain.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

The Dance of Intimacy

by Harriet Lerner
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ISBN: 9780060916466
Author: Harriet Lerner
Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks
Date of Publication: 1989-01-01
Format: Paperback
Related Collections: Personal Development
Related Topics: Psychology, Marriage, Personal Development
Goodreads rating: 4.02
(rated by 9949 readers)

Description

In The Dance of Intimacy, the bestselling author of The Dance of Anger outlines the steps to take so that good relationships can be strengthened and difficult ones can be healed. Taking a careful look at those relationships where intimacy is most challenged--by distance, intensity, or pain--she teaches us about the specific changes we can make to achieve a more solid sense of self and a more intimate connectedness with others. Combining clear advice with vivid case examples, Dr. Lerner offers us the most solid, helpful book on intimate relationships that both women and men may ever encounter.
 

Navigating the complex journey of intimate bonds.

If you're feeling a bit lost in your personal relationships, "The Dance of Intimacy" could be like a compass. Harriet Lerner has a way of guiding readers through the intricate steps necessary to strengthen genuine connections or heal the troubled ones. The book's real-life examples and actionable advice might prove indispensable whether you're aiming to deepen a healthy relationship or salvage one that's under strain.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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