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Wisdom to Know the Difference: Core Issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living

Charles L. Whitfield

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Wisdom to Know the Difference: Core Issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living

by Charles L. Whitfield
Wisdom to Know the Difference: Core Issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living
Wisdom to Know the Difference: Core Issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living

Untangle the patterns that keep peace distant

Drawing on 35 years of clinical experience, Whitfield examines core struggles in relationships, recovery, and living. He explores control, trust, self-esteem, conflict, grief, boundaries, and emotional expression. Each issue is paired with choices and solutions designed to support healing and peace.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

Wisdom to Know the Difference: Core Issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living

by Charles L. Whitfield
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ISBN: 9781935827108
Author: Charles L. Whitfield
Publisher: Muse House Press/Pennington
Date of Publication: 2012-04-10
Format: Paperback
Related Collections: Personal Development, Science, Sociology
Related Topics: Personal Development, How To, Marriage, Psychology, Mental Health
Goodreads rating: 4.47
(rated by 17 readers)

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Wisdom to Know the Difference. This book addresses in detail these common core issues in Relationships, Recovery and Living: how they come about, and the choices and solutions to use them to your advantage, heal, and experience peace. Needing to be in control; difficulty trusting; difficulty being real; how to handle feelings; low self-esteem (shame); dependence versus independence; fear of abandonment; all-or-none thinking and behaving; high tolerance for inappropriate behavior; over-responsibility for others; neglecting my own needs; grieving my ungrieved hurts, losses and traumas; difficulty resolving conflict; difficulty giving and receiving love. Based on over 35 years of clinical experience assisting people with addictions, trauma survivors, and people with various problems in living, Dr. Whitfield describes how to identify and handle each core issue. Dr. Whitfield lives and practices in Atlanta, GA. He has been voted by his peers since 1993 as one of the Best Doctors in America, and has been a guest researcher and consultant at the CDC since 1998.
 

Untangle the patterns that keep peace distant

Drawing on 35 years of clinical experience, Whitfield examines core struggles in relationships, recovery, and living. He explores control, trust, self-esteem, conflict, grief, boundaries, and emotional expression. Each issue is paired with choices and solutions designed to support healing and peace.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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