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Missing Out : In Praise of the Unlived Life

by Adam Phillips
$16.41
Missing Out : In Praise of the Unlived Life - Thryft
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Missing Out : In Praise of the Unlived Life

by Adam Phillips
$16.41
ISBN: 9780374281113
Authors: Adam Phillips
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Date of Publication: 2013-01-22
Format: Hardcover
Related Collections: Philosophy, Personal Development, Creative Nonfiction
Related Topics: Personal Development, Psychology, Essays
Goodreads rating: 3.48
(rated by 2121 readers)

Description

A transformative book about the lives we wish we had and what they can teach us about who we are.All of us lead two parallel lives: the one we are actively living, and the one we feel we should have had or might yet have. As hard as we try to exist in the moment, the unlived life is an inescapable presence, a shadow at our heels. And this itself can become the story of our lives: an elegy to unmet needs and sacrificed desires. We become haunted by the myth of our own potential, of what it might be that we have in ourselves to be or to do. And this can make of our lives a perpetual falling short.But what happens if we remove the idea of failure from this equation? With his flair for graceful paradox, the acclaimed psychoanalyst Adam Phillips suggests that if we accept frustration as a way of outlining what we really want, satisfaction suddenly becomes possible. To crave a life without frustration is to crave a life without the potential to identify and accomplish our desires.In this elegant, compassionate, and absorbing book, Phillips draws deeply on his own clinical experience as well as on the works of Shakespeare and Freud, of Donald Winnicott and William James, to suggest that missing out, getting away with it, and not getting it are all chapters in our unlived lives--and may be essential to the one fully lived.
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