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How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable: Getting Your Point Across With the Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense

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How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable: Getting Your Point Across With the Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense
How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable: Getting Your Point Across With the Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense

Calm, clever scripts for tense conversations

This feels like a practical guide for anyone who dreads conflict but still wants to speak up with confidence. Elgin’s approach is memorable because it focuses on staying dignified and clear, even when conversations turn sharp or emotionally loaded. If you’ve ever wished for better words in the moment, this is the kind of book readers often find genuinely useful and reassuring.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.
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ISBN: 9780471157052
Related Collections: Personal Development, Sociology
Related Topics: Personal Development, Social Issues, How To

Description

Based on Suzette Haden Elgin's Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense, this guide helps you respond clearly to hostile comments and deliver necessary feedback without sacrificing dignity or principles. Learn to prevent domestic disagreements from escalating, deliver constructive criticism to coworkers or employees, handle aggressive remarks about race, politics, or religion, provide discipline without increasing hostility, and use language that reduces tension and builds rapport in every situation. Author: Suzette Haden Elgin
 

Calm, clever scripts for tense conversations

This feels like a practical guide for anyone who dreads conflict but still wants to speak up with confidence. Elgin’s approach is memorable because it focuses on staying dignified and clear, even when conversations turn sharp or emotionally loaded. If you’ve ever wished for better words in the moment, this is the kind of book readers often find genuinely useful and reassuring.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.