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Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your Life

Yiyun Li

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Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your Life

by Yiyun Li
Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your Life
Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your Life

A life reclaimed through literature

Yiyun Li’s luminous memoir intertwines reading, writing, and recovery. Written during her battle with depression, it asks what makes life worth living. Literary reflections and memories of childhood in China shape an intimate exploration of selfhood.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your Life

by Yiyun Li
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ISBN: 9780241978665
Author: Yiyun Li
Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd
Date of Publication: 2018-02-20
Format: Paperback
Related Collections: Creative Nonfiction, Philosophy, Biographies & Memoirs
Related Topics: Classics, Biography Memoir, Essays, Biography, Memoir, Mental Health
Goodreads rating: 3.7
(rated by 2877 readers)

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'Profoundly engaging in depth, with remarkable subtlety and rare, limpid beauty. A must-read' - Mary Gaitskill A luminous memoir about reading, writing and how to find meaning in a life Written over two years while the author battled depression, Dear Friend is a painful and yet richly affirming examination of what makes life worth living. Interweaving personal memoir with a wide-ranging celebration of writers and books, this is a journey of recovery through literature. From William Trevor and Katherine Mansfield to Kierkegaard and Larkin, Yiyun Li traces the themes of time and transformation, presence and absence. Drawing on personal experiences from her difficult childhood in China, she constructs a beautiful, interior exploration of selfhood and what is required to choose life.
 

A life reclaimed through literature

Yiyun Li’s luminous memoir intertwines reading, writing, and recovery. Written during her battle with depression, it asks what makes life worth living. Literary reflections and memories of childhood in China shape an intimate exploration of selfhood.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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